Sex drive increase ? Mid life change (cant call it a crisis)

Lefty

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I am not complaining but am curious to hear if others may have some experience with this.
I am in my 40s, good health, not on any meds, and get a reasonable amount of exercise but not a gym rat.
There have been no big changes in my personal life.

Over the past several months I have been experiencing a very steady increase in sex drive. It's not like I was dormant previously and have come back to life or anything. But now I am horny all the time.

I can't sleep properly because I am thinking about sex. I wake up with wood. I fantasize about sex more than I have over the past 10 yrs or so. I just want women all the time. I mean all the time!

I have always surfed porn, almost daily. That hasn't changed.
I masturbate but no more than usual. I do it more for the physical release than anything else. Just to ease the frustration.

It's almost like I have had a testosterone surge ?

My last physical check-up, including prostate and blood work etc, was all normal.

In my 30s I was more attracted to women in there 30s and 40s, and still am, but now I am over the moon about hot 20-somethings and am more appreciative than ever of the 50ish gals that still have game.

I don't get enough (as much as I need) at home, and can really only afford to 'hobby' maybe twice a month.

Masturbating eases a little of the ball-tension but only for a few hours and then I am randy to beat hell again.

I have noticed that I think my ejaculations are smaller (less fluid) but as intense as ever.

Does anyone else have experience with a sex drive surge that has is hard to explain why ?

Ladies, your thoughts are wlecome too please.

Lefty
 

sevenofnine

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i don't know
but for me its just im enjoying it more then when i was younger,

i could see an sp daily if i had the money.
for me sex was well a long time between. now i see some one regular and its enjoyable and i have seen her alot, when things get boring, its funny but we find something new to do and i get all reved up again,

maybe its because sps aren't as conservative as my wife, and eventually my wife and me stopped completely but sps are great to explore kinks and fetishes and well a womens body period, sps are really an uninhibted bunch, even a safe gfe sp, that i see is way more open minded then my wife was.

and well im older, so for me a session is not really about how many shots on goal i can get. i have a fetish, that i never knew i had, i just found it and rather enjoy it with this certain sp.
and i have spent a year or so enjoying this particular kink i have and it became boring, and what do you know, i discovered another fetish, kink, that i never really thought of or knew that i had.

like i said sps are a very open minded bunch, and the kinks that i have are just sort of humours or embarressing for me i suppose, not much so, but just the same, a chuckle or to might ensue the lady doesn't mind, she enjoys it actually.

i think for me that has alot to do with, sex is both sort of physical as well as an intellectual pursuit, what emotional pleasures i can trigger in myself, instead of when i was younger, wam bam thank you mam,

but for me its very enjoyable more so then when i was younger,
 
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