Being it's that time of year again many of you may have already faced the age old decision of whether or not to go your office Christmas or New Years party.
Should you go? Etiquette for not going?
Should you go? Etiquette for not going?
Go, drink straight coke and take notes...
It depends on if you are in a job where you need to network or not. If you need to network, some people get their panties all bunched up if a person demonstrates that they "aren't a team player". I drink coke if I can get away with it and red wine otherwise. I can make a single glass of wine last 6 hours and I'm good at getting my hand over the glass to prevent re-fills. Getting drunk and hitting on the women co-workers is as bad as not attending in the networking environment. Just look at what happened with RIM. Their founders liked "party men" because they like to "party hard" themselves. Now they have two executives that are going to cost them a lot when the legal actions are over and people have one more reason to not want to own their stock.
Acceptable business deportment is pretty conservative these days. Everyone is risk adverse and you are being judged at the Christmas party.
If you really don't like to attend the office christmas party - the best excuse is that you are on holiday. I used that at one workplace after attending the office party the first year.