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Alix Turner

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this is sort of an odd question that came to mind after reading a review of kylee anderson.. but, I guess I was wondering how it feels to read a review where you see someone had an amazing time with someone that treated you in a manner you found undesirable or vice versa. Alternately, I guess how does it feel to write a review and have people disagree with you, or call you a liar?

I'm really looking forward to hearing any answers on this one.

once again, thanks for keeping me informed to anyone who chooses to post on this one ;)
 

Elmore

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Maybe rephrase the question. I am not really sure what you are asking.
 

Elmore

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Some women only get great reviews. That is good for them and their business. But the reality is that they could not have possibly clicked with each and every client so that increases the likelihood that they are just really good actors (or maybe they are just better at making the most out of each situation). I have seen a few ladies who were not very well reviewed and had the best time ever with them.
When I write a positive review and lots disagree and complain that the woman was mechanical or not into the session it makes me realize that we most likely did have a real connection and she sucks at faking it.
 

chilli

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YMMV is one of the biggest reasons why one review won't jive with another.

Some women honestly love men of all sizes, ages and colors - others have to work on it a bit lol...

I mean seriously I don't know how you girls do it - I could never sleep with an overweight person.

Just the thought of all the rolls of fat, physically makes me sick.

That's why I don't understand overweight escorts - I mean people pay to have sex with fat people? yikes! lol...

Thank god we all have different tastes - that's why multiple reviews are more important to me.
 

AA_Train

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YMMV is the very reason I don't mention specific sexual details. When I review, I tend more to focus on attitude and style and demeanour and things of that nature. Reviews should reflect your experience and your opinion. Nobody has to share your view or even believe it. There have been some ladies here I have seen that have been extremely well reviewed but my experience was luke warm at best. I refrained from reviewing her because 1. It was more of a chemistry thing and 2. I didn't want her ardent supporters to shoot me down. Had I written a review, it would have reflected that.

In the end it is up to the reader to judge credibility and sift through the reviews to form their own opinions.
 

Dickson

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What do you think when you write a review and someone disagrees with you?
Alix I have just started to write on line. Up to now I kept it to myself because of your question. I am older and have seen a lot of ladies over the years. I am now in a stage in my life where I really do not care if someone disagrees with my post or my review. It is all about perception. I might not have had the greatest time with a provider but someone else will. A provider might not click with me or be into what I am into. Not saying she is a bad provider it just did not work for me. I like certain things from the ladies I see and that is just me. My perspective is my perspective. I have no right to say it is right or wrong it just is. I kinda think it is like a baby. I have have seen some ugly babies but to the parents it is the most beautiful baby.

The beauty of Perb is it gives you different perspectives. I can take it or leave it. But at least it is light in a very dark room. But what we see might be different shaped by our experiences. SP who have been with me know I have some specific likes and dislikes. They cater to my needs and get rewarded. This is a fantasty world. Good providers who make it as real as possible are rewarded big time. Those who do not get it do not do well. Simply put give us more of what we want and less of what do want want and you are successful. It really is that simple.

Sorry for rambling on but I am inbetween a few things and your question really touch a thought.
 

Dgodus

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Simply put.

My cup of tea may or may not be your cup of tea.

Little tangent from what someone posted. I'd have no problem sleeping with a fatter woman so long as her personality was good, she was fun and into having some laughs. I'm not paying for it, but no problem doing it. Unfortunatly I'm buying books by the cover so to speak and on occasion would probably been better off with a fun loving chubby.
 

Bob Loblaw

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This is one of the reasons I have mixed feelings about the review boards. Yes the reviews are helpful in finding quality providers but when you start reading the reviews it almost becomes a turn-off. Do I really want to book an appointment with a provider and have some other guys experience in the back of my mind to compare with? Why did she do x with him but not with me? It's because of this that I've tried to find providers with few or no reviews and tend not to write reviews myself. I also do not read read reviews of someone I've seen.
 

mikeret17

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I tend to agree with alot of the views that have been posted already;
- Your mileage my vary
- My cup of tea may not be you cup of tea
-Etc

it really doesn't matter 1 way or another whether someone chooses to disagree with any part of a review I have posted.

I haven't really done a whole lot of reviews lately for 2 basic reasons;

- Most of the sessions I have been having lately have been witt ladies I have seen before, and have already written a review from either the initial meeting or a subsequent session. I'm sure alot of you don't want to hear a rehash of the same lady I have seen, over and over. I will however, post in a review thread that someone else has written on a certain lady, and so far to agree with what the reviewer has said.

- Secondly, and this has to do with the OP question itself. I have noticed that so many reviews have been derailed by people who just seem to have an axe to grind, either towards the SP that was reviewed (positive or negative) or the person who provided the review itself. Review threads are not the place to bring up long standing grudges against either of these people mentioned, and especially not to the extent that some people take it to.
Yes, alot of SPs have both positive and negative reviews to their credit. Hopefully most of them have learned from their mistakes along the way and are better providers for that fact. But I really don't need to read a derailment of a review from a hobbyist saying he saw Miss XXX 5 years ago and she was the worst SP ever. I think any subsequent negative reviews, and especially RECENT reviews of Miss XXX will more than prove the point appropriately.
Conversely, nitpicking with a fellow hobbyist just because you don't see eye to eye with them, perhaps having nothing to do with the reviewed lady herself or for some other comment in some other thread, seems rather counter-productive, doesn't it?
Ergo, maybe I'm just a little gunshy about writing a review that may turn out to be nothing but a shakey soapbox for people to take potshots at, all because perhaps their ego took a bit of a hit in the past.

The whole idea of the reviews should be for the valuable information they have for us as members of these boards.

Nuff Said
 

vancity_cowboy

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if somebody disagrees with my opinion on a woman, i start sniffing around looking for evidence that they are either a shill or a defamer as the case may be... and you know something? they usually are!! :thumb:
 

wilde

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Once you've been on Perb for a while, you develop a sense of whose reviews you can trust, whose reviews are exaggerated and whose reviews are pure fantasy/the shilly kind. So you can say YMMV all you want but in the end they shouldn't vary a very great deal, that is unless you are a 300lb, hairy pooner with sewage breath and you think hygiene is spelt hi gene...
 
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luvsdaty

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Don't really worry about it, life's to short to get bent out of shape over someone your never gonna meet? I usually take every review with a grain of salt. As stated above YMMV i've actually had some terrible times with some of the girls that others rave about, on the other hand, i've had great times with some of the girls that just get dragged over the coals. Different strokes for different folks, i always say:)
 

sevenofnine

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i guess i have been around long enough to know
paid advertizers can have anything they want deleted,
maybe not on this board, but i know it happens.

just in passing with an sp, i mentioned something i might have mentioned in a review i wrote of her,
she said i would have had it deleted, i thought it was funny, but she didn't like it,
she mentioned a mods name, she has his phone number she would have it deleted in a heart beat.

another sp, she stood me up we got into it,
and i made a post on how frusting things can be some time, i never mentined her name or any name of any sp
for that matter, she had my post deleted,
and again i did not mention any name hers or anyone elses

and i saw my favorite sp, a year or so ago,
we have a good relationship,

i read a review of her that was quite nice sort of romantic, and well just nice, as opposed to three shots on goal multi positions etc, and i mentioned to her that it was a nice review.

she told me it was nothing like that, the guy was a creep,
and she actually had him black listed.
my point,

is that reviews don't tell the ladies side of things, and well, like i said if she doesn't like it she can have it deleted.

i don't read or write reveiws any more,
the only purpose of a review for me, is to confirm the lady is legit
 

luvsdaty

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Yeah, it's a free board for us guys so you gotta take reviews with a grain of salt. Ladies in red are paying to advertise, who knows if they have any pull? Judging by the ganging up that goes on here(especially in the past), i don't think they have much pull, none of my reviews have been deleted & i've had some that weren't favourable to the sp.
 

sevenofnine

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i have no experiance on this board with regards to things being deleted, negative reviews or comments that some lady didn't like,

but on another board, it seemed like every lady i saw had a mod in her back pocket.


just to be fare,
i also know it works the other way for the ladies to,
i mean your a paid advertizer and your banner and stuff is supposed to come up at certain intervals.
well you piss a mod off and guess what your banner and stuff gets buried.
so it works both ways for the ladies or can, and they can be banned from a board period.

like i said im not talking about this board, but another one.

but like some one mentioned once you have been around for awhile you get a feel for things
 

Dgodus

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Wrote in passing a semi review once in an existing thread. Mainly because of someones issues with booking and I had found booking to be incredibly easy. Also included some vague details about the lady herself - didn't feel right about it, I'd rather keep my experiences to myself. Besides some reviews simply come off as chest thumping bravado. I know I wouldn't want to read a review of myself as a client wether it be good or bad (although feedback may be appreciated afterwards as I'm new to hobby.... Maybe I should ask about that next time)
 
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