i guess its something that i have always wondered about, im married i have kids i think were happy or as happy as anyone.
but you always hear these comments yeah what about your wife.
or some professional saying well there are pills you might take for you over active sex drive.
or dr phil spouting off, under no circumstances are you or should you look for anything outside your marriage.
i guess i would agree with that statement.
if you would follow it up with one saying both partners should work toward physical and emotional happiness.
i guess doc phil has
he has made comments like you have to take care of your self not put on to many pounds and be healthy and vibrant for your partner.
but yeah its kind of any easy thing to say, under no circumstances should you look outside your marriage.
i think for sure the first place you look is in your marriage for physical intimacy and emotional intimacy and happiness
but if you don't find it.
you need something your partner can't give you. or is uncomfortable giving you.
does that mean forever your unhappy or and do with out.
i think we have a responsiblity to our family and our partners for sure.
but where does that responsibilty end. or does it.
i think our first responsbility is to our self. then along the way in life we make other responsbilities and commitments. and yeah we kind of have to keep them were not much of a human being if we don't or try any way
but yet there are times when im just not happy and well i bring my wife down with me and my kids, so in short if i don't take care of myself well then i can't take care of my wife and family
and it can spiral to well a very dysfucntional abusive family not good for anyone.
i dunno but i think you have every right to search out physical and emotional well being
outside your family, if you have tried and your needs aren't being met,
and i think it doesn't necessay mean the end to your family.
it could but does it have to.
im just tired of so many people spouting off well your married or your wife your kids. like that is the answer for everything. and you don'\t have the right to some sort of physical happiness or emotional happiness either.
at times you need more then your wife is able to give you emotionally or even physically, she just isn't able to. or won't
it seems strange i see an sp,
have for years its very comfortable we get along quite well actually.
but thats it she is my sp, im not planning to run away with her or whatever
i should feel guilty but i don't
were even close, but still i don't feel guilty she fills a space my wife can't or won;t
i honestly don't see myself as doing anything wrong.
but i know if i got caught there would be shit to pay,
and all those people would say see.
i told you so.
but honestly
if your married
how much guilt do you have over doing this.
i don't have any
and sps you know men better then anyone
what do you think about a married man, seeing you then going home to his wife and kids.
but you always hear these comments yeah what about your wife.
or some professional saying well there are pills you might take for you over active sex drive.
or dr phil spouting off, under no circumstances are you or should you look for anything outside your marriage.
i guess i would agree with that statement.
if you would follow it up with one saying both partners should work toward physical and emotional happiness.
i guess doc phil has
he has made comments like you have to take care of your self not put on to many pounds and be healthy and vibrant for your partner.
but yeah its kind of any easy thing to say, under no circumstances should you look outside your marriage.
i think for sure the first place you look is in your marriage for physical intimacy and emotional intimacy and happiness
but if you don't find it.
you need something your partner can't give you. or is uncomfortable giving you.
does that mean forever your unhappy or and do with out.
i think we have a responsiblity to our family and our partners for sure.
but where does that responsibilty end. or does it.
i think our first responsbility is to our self. then along the way in life we make other responsbilities and commitments. and yeah we kind of have to keep them were not much of a human being if we don't or try any way
but yet there are times when im just not happy and well i bring my wife down with me and my kids, so in short if i don't take care of myself well then i can't take care of my wife and family
and it can spiral to well a very dysfucntional abusive family not good for anyone.
i dunno but i think you have every right to search out physical and emotional well being
outside your family, if you have tried and your needs aren't being met,
and i think it doesn't necessay mean the end to your family.
it could but does it have to.
im just tired of so many people spouting off well your married or your wife your kids. like that is the answer for everything. and you don'\t have the right to some sort of physical happiness or emotional happiness either.
at times you need more then your wife is able to give you emotionally or even physically, she just isn't able to. or won't
it seems strange i see an sp,
have for years its very comfortable we get along quite well actually.
but thats it she is my sp, im not planning to run away with her or whatever
i should feel guilty but i don't
were even close, but still i don't feel guilty she fills a space my wife can't or won;t
i honestly don't see myself as doing anything wrong.
but i know if i got caught there would be shit to pay,
and all those people would say see.
i told you so.
but honestly
if your married
how much guilt do you have over doing this.
i don't have any
and sps you know men better then anyone
what do you think about a married man, seeing you then going home to his wife and kids.