Mademoiselle Bijou commented in reply to one of my posts suggesting reasons why men would want to see older SPs and I replied that I'd consider what she had written. Here's what I've come up with (so far):
I recently saw a woman who advertised herself as 32 who, in fact, looked a fair bit older and certainly a good deal more weathered than what one would expect from a woman in her early thirties. She was certainly well reviewed and was always even spoken, straightforward and open on the phone. I did have a "session" with her but would never return. Too many lines in her face and body just not tight enough. I was never really into seeing older women in my "dating" life and certainly don't need to pay to see one in my life as a client. Just not attracted.
Ms. Bijou pointed out some of the possible attractions of an older SP: Mainly, that they are more sexually experienced so that they could be more interesting sexual partners and that they are much more likely to possess the kind of understanding which would both put men at ease and allow them the kind of understanding a male may wish for in a woman. I accept these as reasons for seeing an SP, at least for some men seeing an SP but, no, not for me. When I pay, I pay for (relative) youth, about 24-30 (actual ages). I don't date anymore because, if I did, I'd still want relatively young women. Some people have characterized me as immature. I've never disputed that. The desire for young women by older men, however, is clearly prevalent, historically speaking.
I recently saw a woman who advertised herself as 32 who, in fact, looked a fair bit older and certainly a good deal more weathered than what one would expect from a woman in her early thirties. She was certainly well reviewed and was always even spoken, straightforward and open on the phone. I did have a "session" with her but would never return. Too many lines in her face and body just not tight enough. I was never really into seeing older women in my "dating" life and certainly don't need to pay to see one in my life as a client. Just not attracted.
Ms. Bijou pointed out some of the possible attractions of an older SP: Mainly, that they are more sexually experienced so that they could be more interesting sexual partners and that they are much more likely to possess the kind of understanding which would both put men at ease and allow them the kind of understanding a male may wish for in a woman. I accept these as reasons for seeing an SP, at least for some men seeing an SP but, no, not for me. When I pay, I pay for (relative) youth, about 24-30 (actual ages). I don't date anymore because, if I did, I'd still want relatively young women. Some people have characterized me as immature. I've never disputed that. The desire for young women by older men, however, is clearly prevalent, historically speaking.
