Well I wrote a real thoughtful reply to this thread and my stupid mobile phone cut me out. I SWEAR I AM GONNA THROW THIS F**KIN PHONE TO ABU DUBAI. Anyways, without a positive connection without the SP, there would be no future "hang-out" dates. Look at good examples on the review board. Some go for the sex and that only (sorry if I offended anyone), some go for their wants & desires, and some (honestly like myself) go for not just for the exxxcellent sex, but really also for the companionship. Without the positive connection, most of us would still be stuck in the hamster wheel, looking and pooning the "hottie" that we all fantasize about in our night/day dreams. Hell I have to admit, with my positive connection with my recent SP encounters, I would just like to take her out for brunch/lunch/dinner WITHOUT any sexually intercourse involved. Or take them out to help me find a gift for my mother's birthday (just an example at the moment). Go ahead and think I am lying and sucking-up cause, I ain't and I am being one hundred ten percent truthfully honest here. That is my rhyme & reason for now... Anyways what is every viewer's take on this thread...