Warning-immature provider poses as fetish-friendly

Jerrick1317

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This story is meant to share a bad experience with a provider. I will not name the provider (call her Provider). Instead, I will point to warning signs that I have learned to watch for. I would be glad to hear comments from providers and clients on this board.
This story is about an attempt to carry out a fantasy involving role play, domination, and golden showers. I would respectfully recommend that those of you who are not interested in such plays, should just skip this thread.
Knowing that my fantasy is not for everybody, I searched the net for fetish-friendly providers. Also knowing that my fantasy does not lend itself to a studio location, I narrowed down the search to independent providers - BTW, there appears to be only a few in Edmonton who satisfy the above two criteria. I sent emails describing my fantasy in great detail, got a couple of responses, followed up with phone calls. One such exchange took place with the Provider.
Warning Sign 1
First comment from the Provider on the phone was: no sense to waste time, because she does not do this one thing. I should have gone with that initial reaction… Instead, I thought – it is such an easy fix, the part she did not like was not at all important for me. I emailed her an updated fantasy scenario, respecting her limitations.
Warning Sign 2
She replied by saying that she thought she could accommodate the fantasy. It sounded doubtful, but I took it as a confirmation of scope.
Warning Sign 3
In further exchange, we agreed on budget and schedule – including the day and exact time. In the exchange, I asked a couple of follow-up questions related to our plans, which she left completely unanswered. I should have wondered about her being serious about the date, but I thought maybe she was busy and not into writing long emails.
Warning Sign 4
A few days ahead of time, I asked about the general directions to her area (out-of-town location; I did not expect to get the exact address until I arrive in the area – standard practice). I only got the general directions about 15 hours before the date time, late in the evening. Next morning, I emailed my confirmation that I received her directions, and planned to call when I get in the area.
Warning Sign 5
Two hours later, about 90 minutes before the scheduled date time, I got the following email – it is verbatim: “I waited for you today you never called so you know what, I am through playing games with you. I don’t know if that’s what gets you off wasting peoples time talking about golden showers and stuff then what ever you are fucked more then I thought. Do not email me call me text me just loose my contact info. Or I will contact the police for your harassment now fuck off”.
I guess I finally got the message :), took her kind advice, and “lost” her contact info :).
Learning: if you want to carry out a kinky fantasy, ask the Provider 5 times if she is up to it.
Or am I missing something here?
 

hsb999

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She sound flaky from the start. Even if it wasn't a fetish scenario.

I highly recommend talking to the girl over the phone so you can make yourself clear and get the reaction/impression from the girl. Emails should be pretty black & white... obviously she's probably drugged out or doesn't care enough to make the effort to accommodate you.

Bad communication is a big warning flag from the start.
 
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