Luxxxe Affaire

Condom problem

Rotcod

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Honestly, right now I am feeling really flustered. I just got back from seeing a VERY well reviewed girl and was getting hot and heavy with her. Until it was time for the main event, that is. As soon as the condom went on, I went completely limp, and even when I tried to fuck her, the condom started slipping off. We tried everything, including a cock ring, but nothing seemed to work. Eventually, we both just gave up and I ended up leaving.

What I have been finding frustrating is that I have tried at least half dozen condoms from various manufacturers, and none of them seem to fit. BTW, in case you were wondering, and I am not saying this to brag at all, the condoms we tried using were Trojan Magnums XL. Apparently, even they were too snug for me.
 

Holly Taylor

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The thing about condoms is that they are made to fit a majority of men, not all men- as I'm sure you've come to realize. When I've had bigger or smaller clients, they've always brought their own condoms with them, because they know what works for them.

You might have to go beyond trying what's offered at the drug store.

Isabelle once suggested a good online store to me, but now I can't remember what it was called.

Hopefully someone here can step up to provide an answer of where to look next. I'm certain there's a solution out there for you, it's just a matter of finding it.
 

maroonedsailor

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I just grab a garbage bag on my way out the door. It's a little snug but not too bad ;)
Thank you Hubba - at last......... a real solution
 

FortunateOne

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Try a sex shop as well. They may have a brand of extra large condoms specialty brands (because of all the supersize dildos). I've seen sexy lingerie shops that carry condoms (male and female, non-latex types, etc) so they might have something to try.

Go for the 3packs and (yes) try them out at home until you find a good fit. Try Lifestyles and Durex if the Trojan wasn't right.

It's not unusual for things to go awry at this time, especially for someone new or seeing someone new, or if you don't do this often. The sp should always finish by hand (without condom obviously) or if they provide bbbjs, do that, when this happens. I couldn't tell from your post if this was provided or not.
 
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I'm no expert, but it doesn't sound like a condom problem. :confused:
haha i was so used to fucking my girlfriend bareback, that when i started fucking randoms with a condom, i couldnt get it to stay hard the first couple times either. It felt like i was fucking a glove.
 

Violet

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There's a site I've heard of called condomcountry. Also there are sites where you can get custom-fit condoms. You measure your length & width using their sizing chart that you can print out, & email in your measurements, then they mail the condoms to you in a plain package. Great for bigger guys or smaller guys, or guys with an usual length/width combination. And they're actually not much more expensive than regular condoms, (as long as you buy more than a couple at a time).
 

Rotcod

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Thanks for all the suggestions. I avoided the sex shops because I (mistakenly) thought that regular drug stores had condoms that would fit my girth, but it looks like I have no choice but to check them out. I will also look into the custom fit condoms as well.

I would like to have this problem licked before I go to Cuba in a month and a half, so if there are any ladies willing to volunteer to help me with this 'big' (excuse the pun) problem, I would greatly appreciate it.
 
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westcoast555

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Honestly, right now I am feeling really flustered. I just got back from seeing a VERY well reviewed girl and was getting hot and heavy with her. Until it was time for the main event, that is. As soon as the condom went on, I went completely limp, and even when I tried to fuck her, the condom started slipping off. We tried everything, including a cock ring, but nothing seemed to work. Eventually, we both just gave up and I ended up leaving.

What I have been finding frustrating is that I have tried at least half dozen condoms from various manufacturers, and none of them seem to fit. BTW, in case you were wondering, and I am not saying this to brag at all, the condoms we tried using were Trojan Magnums XL. Apparently, even they were too snug for me.
You may actually be that large, in which case you should use the Magnums or whatever, however they do accomodate so I think it's not just a size issue. You say it slips off so it's more of a psychological thing.

First, add some lube to the inside of the condom, it feels a lot better.. but psychologically you're getting turned off by the idea of fucking a piece of rubber instead of a woman which I can relate to.

You should get some good porn and jack off with condoms. Get used to associating condom use with hot, illicit sex. Imagine how much hot pussy you can get with one of those things. It's your ticket. It's also the thing that's keeping you safe from disease and letting you fuck bad girls and get away with it - rather than the thing that's coming between you and your woman.

I'm not a monster, I have a fair-sized dick and I used to feel a 20% drop in hardon every time I put one of those things on with a girlfriend. No it's kind of hot because it reminds me of being with a hooker and I have less paranoia.

Good luck.
 
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susi

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@the Meat Market!!!lol
there is a shop on denman street which all they sell is condoms. i would go in and be honest about your size. also, try something in a thin or ultra thin for more feeling.

also, if you put a little lube in the tip of the condom it makes it wet inside and feels a little more natural. only in the tip though, so it doesn't slip off.

with the ultra thins, make sure the pussy is well lubed too to ensure no breakage and if it turns into a marathon, change the condom often also to prevent breaking.

the cool thing about the store on denman is that they sell singles and so you could try a few different kinds in your quest for quality feeling and good fit.

have fun trying them out!!!
i'd be happy to assist you in any position...i mean way possible!!:p

love susieXXXO
 

lady kassandra

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condommania.com or condomania.com used to offer custom sized condoms. I don't know if they still do.
I know that Good Vibrations (goodvibes.com) has extra wide condoms. Just be aware that sometimes the duty and brokerage fees can add up if ordering from the US.
Good luck! :)
 

Holly Taylor

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there is a shop on denman street which all they sell is condoms. i would go in and be honest about your size. also, try something in a thin or ultra thin for more feeling.

also, if you put a little lube in the tip of the condom it makes it wet inside and feels a little more natural. only in the tip though, so it doesn't slip off.

with the ultra thins, make sure the pussy is well lubed too to ensure no breakage and if it turns into a marathon, change the condom often also to prevent breaking.

the cool thing about the store on denman is that they sell singles and so you could try a few different kinds in your quest for quality feeling and good fit.

have fun trying them out!!!
i'd be happy to assist you in any position...i mean way possible!!:p

love susieXXXO
Oh right! The Rubber Rainbow. I had forgotten about that place.

 

sonoman

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I'm no expert, but it doesn't sound like a condom problem. :confused:
I would tend to agree... see a doctor if necesseary; determine if it's an ED or psychological problem. With good blood flow and no psychological barriers, putting on a condom shouldn't kill an erection. Then again, maybe you are really too big for the condom...
 

deslicher

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I would tend to agree... see a doctor if necesseary; determine if it's an ED or psychological problem. With good blood flow and no psychological barriers, putting on a condom shouldn't kill an erection. Then again, maybe you are really too big for the condom...
If the guy is relatively healthy the problem is most likely between the ears.

He knows how big he is, did he NEVER wear a condom before??? If he's that big maybe the Dr. he needs to see is a surgeon, holy crap man.....

1st time I ever hear of a guy having erection problems because he's too big...maybe he just wanted to see how many women would reply:rolleyes:
 

Oceans11

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Maybe you should try the female condom - then you could add your experiences to the thread(s) about them.
 

bigstick

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If the guy is relatively healthy the problem is most likely between the ears.

He knows how big he is, did he NEVER wear a condom before??? If he's that big maybe the Dr. he needs to see is a surgeon, holy crap man.....

1st time I ever hear of a guy having erection problems because he's too big...maybe he just wanted to see how many women would reply:rolleyes:
That's the same thing I was thinking. I found also snugger condoms do help me last longer or stay harder. Anyways, bud I hope you find a solution forsure.
 

Katlyn

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That's actually a good idea; would solve the problem if it really is the condom...
Plus if it isn't the condom and he still goes limp you can use those ones when the guy is not completely hard and it is still safe.
 
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